Navigating death, life and moving forward.

It started as a simple favor: just take the laundry, out of the dryer. Scott technically did it. Two days later, the entire house is in an uproar, sniffing every corner like bloodhounds, convinced someone is rotting. Spoiler: it was the laundry. And now my nose may never recover.

What started as a gag gift from Scott’s sister has become a legendary symbol of family mischief. From sneaky bumper placements to a full-on trailer sabotage, the “Please Be Patient Student Driver” magnet has haunted our vehicles—and cracked us up—for years. This post is a tribute to harmless pranks, belly laughs, and why Laura may never top this one.

When Scott asked why he doesn’t get breakfast during Spencer’s off-week, I answered with love, caffeine, and brutal honesty.

Before Scott and I got married, I took three romantic trips to visit him in Ohio. Each one ended the same way: with me at urgent care. From poison ivy in capris, to raw mushroom-induced whip marks, to the Great Pink Eye Wrestling Match (yes, his tongue was involved), I somehow survived long-distance love with a full punch card of medical visits.

Spoiler: since marrying him, I’ve been urgent care free… though hospital free? That’s another saga.

Some couples exchange sweet kisses on the couch. We stage tickle-based gladiator combat. It’s nightly. It’s chaotic. It ends with scratches, bruises, laughter, and—on more than one occasion—me peeing a little from laughing too hard (bless you, Spencer). At one point, I looked at Scott’s legs, covered in red streaks, and told him he had “meth legs.” He didn’t deny it. He just grinned and tickled me harder.

Because apparently, this is our love language.

Couponing is my peaceful hobby—until my husband Scott turned it into a full-blown prank war.

When Spencer was six, what started as a common cold turned into a terrifying diagnosis: Acute Flaccid Myelitis. One day he was dreading homework, the next he couldn’t walk. I didn’t believe him at first—and the guilt still stings. What followed were weeks of hospital stays, steroid-fueled chaos, therapy dogs, train displays, and the kind of strength I never expected from a little boy with claw hands and the heart of a warrior.

This isn’t our usual chaos. This is the one that changed everything.

It’s 10 feet by 10 feet. It weighs approximately the same as a small bear. And it’s the most chaotic, beloved blanket in our house.